From the article in Psychology Today by Karen Franklin Ph.D:
No one really knows what percentage of Internet use is sexually oriented, or how much money the porn industry is making. Many commonly cited figures are widely exaggerated, and the true figures remain murky and highly contested. Yet it’s safe to say that for some portion of the public, the easy accessibility leads to habitual use that interferes with other activities, such as family life, relationships, work or school.
No worries. Treatment providers are standing by to help. A quick Google search produces dozens of residential treatment programs for pornography addicts….
There is no question that many people are discontented with their use of pornography. About one in 200 Americans reports problematic viewing habits, according to Ley and colleagues’s estimates. The ambiguity is whether pornography is a cause, or a reflection, of life dissatisfaction.
Read the article at Psychology Today
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